What is retreat?
Jesus said, ‘Come away to a quiet place all by yourselves and rest awhile’ (Mark 6.31)
A Retreat is a chance to step aside from life for a while, to find space to rest, pray and be refreshed in a nurturing and peaceful environment. Retreats are for ordinary people at any time in their lives. While many retreat goers might be seeking a development or renewal in their relationship with God, you don’t need to be a churchgoer or support any religious movement to consider going on retreat. In fact, whatever their roots or affiliations, most retreat centres will warmly welcome all visitors, from any faith or none, aiming both to make you feel at home and comfortable, and to help you get the most out of your time with them.
Quiet Days are day-retreats for small groups. They usually include times of prayer and worship, short reflections on a theme led by a retreat leader, and time to reflect alone. Some will also provide a simple lunch and/or other refreshment.
Retreat Houses are often beautiful or historic buildings with gardens; some also have libraries, art rooms and prayer rooms that you can use. They vary in size from very small (1 or 2 rooms) to very large (for more than 100 people). Whilst some of the smaller places are self-catering, many retreat houses offer overnight accommodation and provide good home-cooked food; most also have facilities for those with disabilities.
Online retreats and quiet days are becoming increasingly popular. These are structured in the same way as ‘in-person’ retreats, but you will need to create your own still and peaceful space at home in which to participate most effectively. Prayers, worship and short reflections are delivered by a retreat leader at intervals through the day, usually by Zoom or Teams, and then you will be given time to reflect or pray alone. Sometimes there are opportunities to talk to other participants over lunchtime.
Types of retreats
There are many different types of retreat to choose from, including retreats for beginners, themed (or ‘led’) retreats, or retreats with no formalised structure. You can attend any of these as a private individual, or as part of a group. Many retreats focus on prayer or contemplation, with input from a retreat leader, balanced with periods of silence, or time to be on your own; some may be silent throughout, others may encourage conversation either in particular locations, or at certain times.
Some retreats include creative pursuits, such as art, poetry, needlework, photography or walking to help in the meditative process. Others might focus on life issues, such as stress management or relationship breakdown. There is no pressure to take part in any activity.
You can read more about what to expect when going on retreat by clicking here, or if you’re interested in why people go on retreat, you can find out more here.
Do you have more questions?
Explore the ‘Where to go‘ page of our website to find an interactive map of more than 70 of our member retreat houses across the UK, and beyond. The page also hosts an online calendar, which lists many of the retreats, quiet days and other events offered by these houses, as well as retreats that will be conducted online. Each event and retreat house is directly linked to the organiser’s own website, where you can find out more about the individual events, and how to book your place.
If you would like advice on which location or what sort of event is suitable for your particular needs, please email the APR Administrator on promoting.retreats@gmail.com, or telephone (01395) 272243.
